“Love does not love what is beautiful, it makes things beautiful.” Anon.
It is easier for a man to get a good woman as a wife when he’s still struggling than when he’s comfortable.
Hard times bring to a man the woman he needs, but wealth gives him a woman he wants. But the irony of the latter is that, most times genuine love is usually found wanting because the arrangement was “ab initio” based on ‘personal interest’.
However, this does not mean that a wealthy man cannot get a good wife but it all depends on what he presented in the first place because comfortability is everyone’s desire, so even a wolf will be eager to dress in sheep clothing in order to achieve its objectives.
When a man marries the woman he needs, the woman sees him as a ‘partner in progress’. One she ‘must’ work together with to achieve better results. But when he marries a woman he wants, he sacrifices more to keep the marriage going.
And oftentimes, his efforts are usually taken for granted in as much as they did not meet the woman’s satisfaction.
Marriages are going down daily because many married who they wanted instead of who they needed.
Are you single and searching? Pause and meditate on the above statement before you continue.
The ability to understand it will guide you into making the right choice. Many ate their cake and still want to have it.
It is better to be cherished for WHAT YOU REPRESENT in someone’s life than to be accepted or loved because of THE SPACE YOU FILL in the person’s desire.
Infidelity is on the increase because most people could no longer see what attracted them to their spouses probably because their motivation then was based on lust of the eye and things that have little or nothing to add to the growth of their marriage. So as time changes a lot of things both in human body, they no longer see reasons to remain faithful.
On the other hand, another dangerous mistake most men make while choosing a life partner is that they often forget that whoever they choose has automatically become the mentor and first role model of their children because a mother’s influence supersedes that of the father on a child.
Therefore, a man who wants to get it right in marriage should look beyond what he wants in a woman and go for who he needs to build a better future for himself and children.
IT IS IMPORTANT TO KNOW WHY A PERSON DECIDES TO MARRY YOU.
Yes, it’s very important because that is what determines 80% of his/her actions and reactions toward the marriage.